If man has spiritual worries this means that there are personal ties between him and the Creator. Even if they are not clearly felt these ties exist.Only man can find his own answers even if he does not understand what is going on.The spiritual world is nothing but the desire to receive and the screen (masach) which opposes it . Decision making in the kli (vessel) begins either with a desire (the selfish kli) or the masach (a spiritual kli bestowing without return) or their merging (spiritual kli receiving).
Man must strive to accept everything that happens to him as all events are a means to progress spiritually.There is no one recipe for any particular case and man must find out what he can or cannot do as well as apply the methods exposed by our masters.When man realises that after having tried everything he cannot escape the small universe of his selfishness , he calls God and cries out for help. Selfishness feels that it is the beginning of the end. Only in this dead end situation can the Creator help man because man is now ready to accept His help.
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