Does a person have to justify suffering, justify the Creator? I can’t justify Him when I suffer. This is sanctimony, hypocrisy, and a lie. He is beating me and I should say, “You are so good.” How will this help? There is no greater falsehood. The Creator knows all that you think about Him.
Hence, it is said: “There is no coercion in spirituality.” That is to say, until you change your own heart so that it really begins thinking this way, the rest will be coercion. So there is no getting away, one has to make corrections within one’s heart. You have no power over your heart; it was created by the Upper Light and the Light can change it. This means that you should somehow compel the Upper Light to make that change.
Courtesy of http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SO9Lj0T93Xk