Everything that happens with me comes from the force that constantly directs me towards a specific Goal, and what do I have to do? First of all, keep oneself in the realization that all of this comes from one governing force, including my thoughts, my feelings, everything people say to me and everything that influences me—absolutely everything from the outside and the inside.
All of this comes from Above from the single Creator, and no one else but Him. This is the first postulate that we have to accept and through it try to go deeper into attaining and revealing the world. Otherwise the picture of the world around us will not become transparent; we will not penetrate through it to forces that stand behind this picture.
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