What can be done if one of the spouses aspires to the spiritual and the other one does not? There must be a compromise. You have to reach a compromise, if it is possible. If not, people get divorced.
What can be done? These people already belong to two separate worlds – one is aspiring to the spiritual, and the second is still submerged in the corporeal. They cannot understand each other. This is not the same as in our world a husband wants to go to the football match, while a wife to a cafe, so they can go to a cafe on the way to the stadium. In this case this is absolutely impossible; they have nothing in common.
In short, a spouse needs to receive compensation (and this is really true) for understanding and help. If you are an egoist and want the spiritual, understand that she – is also an egoist, and give her compensation, so that she has a reason to stay with you. Unfortunately, you have to pay for everything in this world.