We do not know what is this quality—the attribute of bestowal. The attribute of bestowal does not exist in our world. Only reception exists in our world. Even if we physically give something to someone, while doing this we naturally perform a calculation (whether unconsciously, consciously, it does not matter how), “What will I gain out of this?”
This happens on every level: I bestow a material thing and receive a physical, moral or emotional enjoyment that is more beneficial to me than what I give away. I am obligated to have a profit. If I lose from this, then this is a loss for me. This means that I made an incorrect calculation. But in advance I cannot make a calculation that will result in a loss. I will necessarily see a gain in some regard, as otherwise I will not have the energy to perform this action. I am obligated to imagine a profit.